My clients want to have relationships, but they also want to be 100% certain that they won’t get hurt. For emotional self-protection they tend to seek situations that offer controllable intimacy, which is an oxymoron. Emotional intensity, over which you can feel some control, is not the same as genuine closeness. Being vulnerable enough to allow [...]
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Great Advice on How to Meet the Opposite Sex from a Guy
So, there are real-life guys out there who actually want to be in a relationship? Jacob Tomsky, author of Heads in Beds: A Reckless Memoir of Hotels, Hustles and So-Called Hospitality, answered this age-old question for us in his recent article featured in The Huffington Post,“Still Single? How to Meet the Opposite Sex.” Here are [...]
New Study Shows Best Cities for Successful Singles
A just-released study on the top cities for finding successful singles might surprise you. According to Bloomberg‘s ranking, Hoboken, New Jersey came in first place, scoring a perfect 100. Over 53 percent of Hoboken men and women are single, compared to a national average of only 27 percent. In the near-NYC locale, single men ages [...]
Vixely Q&A: I Am in Love with My Best Guy Friend
Welcome to Q&A with the Vixely team of ladies, who love answering your questions on the topics you care about the most. Nothing is off limits. We curate our answers from renowned experts, authors and tastemaker peers, as well as our staff of well-educated single, dating and married women, just like you. We answer your questions [...]
Vix Six: Serious Relationship Red Flags
Hindsight is always 20/20, particularly when it comes to dating and relationships. So often it seems we look back and can see with certainty when we extended ourselves too much for a partner who wasn’t equally there for us, or when we knew something wasn’t right and yet how we continued to pursue a relationship [...]
NEW Dating Diaries: A Couple Shares Their Most Intimate Tales
Meet Kate and Tom*, one of Vixely’s favorite couples featured in our iPad Magazine Second Issue. Vixely’s Dating Diaries features our favorite couples we know who not only share a deep love for one another, but also a passion for each other’s satisfaction. Learn what real, Vixely couples say about their “sig oths” and also what [...]
The Gaggle: Vixely’s New, Favorite Dating Book by Jessica Massa & Rebecca Wiegand
You often go out for drinks with one of your guy friends from home, you always end up chatting with the same guy in your marathon training group after you run, you write hilarious texts with a guy you met one weekend but rarely see, and you just had lunch with your male co-worker during [...]
New Study Shows Gender Equality Improves Dating Prospects
A new study reveals the reasons men and women are attracted to one another are evolving away from traditional norms, reversing some previously held beliefs around social values. Evolutionary psychologist Satoshi Kanozawa has written that “men in every single culture prefer to mate with younger women, and women prefer to mate with older men.” Devotees of evolutionary psychology [...]
10 Ways to Know You’re Loved
Adapted from “19 Ways to Know You’re Loved” by Karen Noble from Thought Catalog. 1. They think about you when you’re not around. They see a billboard that reminds them of you and they text you. They remember you said you needed dish soap and they bring you some because they were running errands. They [...]
31 Ways To Know You’re In The Right Relationship
When you’re in the right relationship, you are willing to put it all on the line, because you just know this is the right person for you. You also talk about your sex life. You don’t hide things from your partner, hold grudges or lose yourself in the relationship. Read the full “31 Ways to [...]
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