My clients want to have relationships, but they also want to be 100% certain that they won’t get hurt. For emotional self-protection they tend to seek situations that offer controllable intimacy, which is an oxymoron. Emotional intensity, over which you can feel some control, is not the same as genuine closeness. Being vulnerable enough to allow [...]
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Just the Tip: Gifts Your Girlfriend Will Love
Guys, don’t worry, we’ve got you covered on getting your girl the ultimate gift this year. No need to hassel her best friend via frantic g-chats, “is this her???” I mean, to be honest we normally suggest something we would want so umm, hello then we can borrow it (half-joke.) Our advice: go outside of [...]
Great Advice on How to Meet the Opposite Sex from a Guy
So, there are real-life guys out there who actually want to be in a relationship? Jacob Tomsky, author of Heads in Beds: A Reckless Memoir of Hotels, Hustles and So-Called Hospitality, answered this age-old question for us in his recent article featured in The Huffington Post,“Still Single? How to Meet the Opposite Sex.” Here are [...]
Do You Have An Intimacy Disorder? Vixely Talks to Expert Robert Weiss (Part 2)
My clients want to have relationships, but they also want to be 100% certain that they won’t get hurt. For emotional self-protection they tend to seek situations that offer controllable intimacy, which is an oxymoron. Emotional intensity, over which you can feel some control, is not the same as genuine closeness. Being vulnerable enough to [...]
Do You Have An Intimacy Disorder? Vixely Talks to Expert Robert Weiss
My clients want to have relationships, but they also want to be 100% certain that they won’t get hurt. For emotional self-protection, they tend to seek situations that offer controllable intimacy, which is an oxymoron. Emotional intensity, over which you can feel some control, is not the same as genuine closeness. Being vulnerable enough to [...]
New Study Shows Best Cities for Successful Singles
A just-released study on the top cities for finding successful singles might surprise you. According to Bloomberg‘s ranking, Hoboken, New Jersey came in first place, scoring a perfect 100. Over 53 percent of Hoboken men and women are single, compared to a national average of only 27 percent. In the near-NYC locale, single men ages [...]
Guy Q&A: How Do I Change My Boyfriend’s Style?
Welcome to Vixely Q&A with Vixely’s resident team of men. Our guy authors are intelligent, honest, funny and—dare we say it—good looking. They take your questions on sex, love, dating and relationships seriously and give you useful answers you truly want from the opposite sex. Some of them are hipsters, some of them are preppy, [...]
Vix Six: 6 Best & Worst Dates on HowAboutWe Right Now
Vixely loves HowAboutWe for meeting new people over a fun date—assuming the date doesn’t involve a starring contest or trying to “kill it on the town.” Here are our Vix Six Picks of the best and worst date ideas on HowAboutWe right now. Best 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Worst 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. [...]
True Story: Dating As A Mormon…Even Though I’m Not One
We open our scene on two twenty-somethings out to dinner on a first date: Me: “My friend and I write a blog as characters. She is The Mormon and I’m …” This is the beginning of a personal play I seem to keep performing. It starts with a statement that I’ve reiterated on multiple first [...]
Vix Six: 6 Date Night Must Haves
Whether your date night consists of an evening out on the town or a romantic dinner for two the most important part is making sure that you have fun and enjoy yourself. Until some mystical potion is invented that can make you date-ready in minutes (hey, if you happen to know of this can you [...]
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