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VixelyLeaks: A Real Guy’s Dating Spreadsheet LEAKED by Vixely

Dating can be so complicated these days…which is why this guy created a super organized Excel spreadsheet of his “dating pipleine” to keep track of all of his prospects! He then sent it to one of them and now Vixely is making it viral. This guy’s modern-day (slash Adderall-induced) take on the Little Black Book [...]

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Vixely’s Dating DEALBREAKERS

In the early stages of getting to know a man, some things are simply non-negotiable. These are called DEALBREAKERS. Of course a man with a great personality can overcome any superficial Vixen bemoaning mentioned below, but to air on the side of caution why not put your best foot forward? And by that we mean [...]

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Vixely Q&A: Is He Using Me for Sex? (Video)

Vixely answers a question asked by one of our readers: “Is he using me for sex?” with a quick checklist.

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5 Ways to Boost Your Energy

If there is one thing you can never have too much of, it is ENERGY! And a healthy sex drive…and boat loads of cash…but let’s start with ENERGY! Here are five quick ways to boost yours: 1. Start your day with oatmeal. Whole, natural oats give you lasting energy and fill you up. Oatmeal is [...]

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How to Hook Up at a Wedding

In honor of the upcoming wedding season,  we wanted to share Sex & Relationship writer Kristen Macfarlane’s “How To Hook Up at a Wedding” from her blog! Enjoy these practical steps to finding your weekend fling or potential future life partner at your best friend’s nuptials. By Kristen Macfarlane 1.  Talk to the bride or [...]

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True Story: My Boldest Pick Up (at Dolores Park)

It’s important to know that when it comes to location, there are no hard and fast rules. I’ve gotten asked out on dates at the gym, at a park, at a baseball game and at most of the places that people tell you is hard to meet new people. Why do I get hit on [...]

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In Bed with TED: Advice from “The Power of Vulnerability” (Video)

This Easter holiday, Vixely wanted to share this amazingly empowering and self-reflecting TED Talk with storyteller and researcher Brené Brown. In the video, Brown explains how we as humans need to feel a sense of connection to others to thrive and that we can best give to one another by first loving and accepting ourselves. As [...]

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Vixely Q&A: Battle of the Sexes

Vixely received this email from “Ed” on the battle of the sexes and offered the following as our response! What do you think, dear readers? Q: Dear Vixely, My Name is Ed, I’m a battle of the sexes sociologist, and never in the course of human history have we teetered so close to the brink [...]

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Relationship Advice: The Importance of Finding Your Passions (Video)

Sex and Relationship Writer Kristen Macfarlane of Bouquetsandbjs.com  shares her advice with Vixely readers, and reminds us that even when you are in a relationship, it is equally up to you to focus on yourself and on cultivating your own passions for the most fulfilling relationship with your partner.

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Vixely Q&A: How Often Should Couples Have Sex? (Video)

Sex and Relationship Writer Kristen Macfarlane of Bouquetsandbjs.com  shares her advice with Vixely readers, and reminds us the importance of open communication in our relationships particularly when it comes to establishing a healthy sex life.

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