My clients want to have relationships, but they also want to be 100% certain that they won’t get hurt. For emotional self-protection they tend to seek situations that offer controllable intimacy, which is an oxymoron. Emotional intensity, over which you can feel some control, is not the same as genuine closeness. Being vulnerable enough to [...]
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Do You Have An Intimacy Disorder? Vixely Talks to Expert Robert Weiss
My clients want to have relationships, but they also want to be 100% certain that they won’t get hurt. For emotional self-protection, they tend to seek situations that offer controllable intimacy, which is an oxymoron. Emotional intensity, over which you can feel some control, is not the same as genuine closeness. Being vulnerable enough to [...]
“The Well-Hung Boy Next Door” & The Truth About Porn
In GQ’s July issue, writer Wells Tower explores the real life of male porn star James Deen in “The Well-Hung Boy Next Door,” learning the ins and outs (sorry) of the industry, and revealing the actor’s secrets to success, as well as what really happens on set. Following the porn industry’s growth in recent decades, Tower highlights some [...]
“Can You Grab a Condom?” “I’ll Consider It!” HBO Show “Girls” & Today’s Sex Conundrum
Guys watch excessive amounts of porn, and as a direct result have become detached and disillusioned with sex in the real world. Women, inundated with images of their sexy peers in the media and observant of their partners’ preference for porn, feel pressure to look and act like coy temptresses—but are smart enough to see [...]
Refinery 29 Goes NSFW (Porn, Sex Toys & More!)
When it comes to taking the taboo out of talking about sex, we could not be happier to see popular women’s lifestyle blog Refinery 29‘s sexy, sophisticated take on “A Tasteful Girl’s Guide To Sexy Time (NSFW).” What’s on a tasteful girl’s list? We are excited to see three of our partners- Ti Chang from [...]
Link Love
Each week, Vixely rounds up its favorites from across the web. Remember last week’s New York Times piece on those in-the-buff strangers who constitute a niche group on Couchsurfing? Those in San Francisco better watch out. Though baring all in public is perfectly legal in the Bay Area, there’s a law in the works requiring that nudists [...]
Lazy Monday…In Bed With TED
It’s Labor Day, and if you’ve spent the weekend following Vixely’s “Labor Day To-Do List” for fun-filled and romantic escapades (or sexcapades, if you will) then we’re sure you’re exhausted. Now is the perfect time to embrace one of our default methods of lounging: staying in bed and watching TED Talks. It’s not “lazy” if you’re [...]
Link Love
Each week, Vixely rounds up our favorites from across the web. Our Idiot Brother gets mixed reviews, but critics adore Paul Rudd’s easy-going performance. We’ve been in love with that man ever since he charmed the pants off his step-sister, Cher, (still kinda creepy) in the movie Clueless. PETA is launching a porn site that will feature sexually explicit [...]
Sexy Performance Art & Film
The best art is often that which enlivens the senses and evokes emotion from its viewers. In keeping with this lofty goal, what better art could we recommend than that which is inspiring in its sensuality and sexual nature? Whether you’re stuck in Manhattan on the weekend and looking for a way to beat the [...]
Porn Sites and Page Ranking
Props to Matt from Google for tackling this. The main takeaway is that page rank is mostly determined by reputation or the number of people and trusted sources linking to a site (e.g. New York Times), not popularity.
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