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25 Things I’ve Learned In My 20s

Vixely enjoyed these words of wisdom originally from Thought Catalog by the amazing writer and editor Ryan O’Connell. We particularly appreciate #25 (obvi). You can’t date a jerk and expect to turn them into a good person. Jerks are fully committed to being unpleasant. Those brief moments of tenderness they give you are designed to trip [...]

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Vixely Q&A: My Boyfriend Doesn’t Pay Attention to Me! (Video)

Here’s the scenario: you’re at a party with your boyfriend, and he is off chatting away with his friends, and hours pass before he comes over to you to hang out or get you involved. During the week, he keeps busy with work and any activities he can fit in. You see each other, but [...]

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3 Reasons There’s No Shame in Online Dating

There are a lot of rumors about online dating that really give it a bad name, and at Vixely we’re just tired of the stigma. Face it people, online dating is here to stay. You’ve seen the Match.com ads, studies have shown that one out of five couples right now have met online. That means that [...]

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How to Analyze His Facebook Profile

Facebook offers the ultimate insight into the life of a person. The tell-tale signs that the a guy is bad news can be subtle, but hopefully our analysis will help you along. How to Analyze His Facebook Profile FRIENDS Bad Unless he is over the age of 30, in a legal profession, or famous: fewer [...]

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Total Frat Move? Please. Total VIXELY Move.

Total Frat Move offers a window into the world of fratty  college boys high-fiving over their old-money status, partying fortitude and latest female (a.k.a. “slampiece”) conquests. Vixely gets pretty pumped about its lifestyle too, so we thought we’d share some Total Vixely Moves that we hope women will enjoy and repeat. Feel free to mentally insert “TVM” at [...]

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First Date Tips Women Need

Follow these tips before a first date to keep you fun, confident and authentically you.

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Vixely Q&A: Sneak Preview

Have you ever tried to Google an answer to an intimate question? What about a question on dating? If yes, were you happy with the results? What about reading a women’s magazine? Do you feel like the responses you are getting from them are useful? Are they real? At Vixely, we weren’t satisfied with the [...]

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Girls on Guys: Interview with a New York Bachelorette

Vixely loves when a lady tells it to us straight. Meet Emma*, a ravishing and rambunctious recent college graduate, and now New York sophisticate, with an English pedigree fit for a King Charles spaniel. Herewith, she shares her secrets on attracting men, reminds us “confidence is sexy,” and discloses the fierce sex she once had [...]

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A Lesson in the Power of Whiskey

Guest written by the adorable and amusing Kate in New York As a relatively new addition to the twenty-somethings single scene in New York City, I have come to pay more attention to the nuances of dating. Every little thing counts. But in particular, what one orders to drink tends to speak very clearly about his or her [...]

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(Just the) Tip: Summer Fashion for the Fellows

You know the scene: it’s summer, you’re sitting on the beach, scoping out the battlefield…and you spot him through the hazy sea spray. You slide your sunglasses down the bridge of your nose to confirm this merman is not a mirage. He’s totally got potential…salty, sun-kissed hair, tan, ripped bod – I mean he’s a [...]

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