You might be a woman who finds it easy to reach her peak or you may never have had an orgasm. Regardless, there is always room for improvement!
Read on to see how and shop some of our favorite products (with a 20% discount from Sweet Exuberance)!
1. Let go.
“I really need to come, I have so much at work, I’m taking too long, I really need to focus, that feels … good, but that event is coming up—just forget it!” We women have so much going on in our minds that we sometimes forget about the only part of the human body made purely for pleasure—the clitoris. The clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings, making it the most likely origin of your next orgasm. To give yourself a little help, use Romantatherapy Pure Satisfaction Gel. It provides a little tingle and increase blood flow, making orgasm easier and more amazing.
…your vagina. You need to do your kegels. The stronger your vaginal walls, the stronger your orgasm. To do your kegels, use the muscles that help you stop the flow of urine when you urinate by holding them in for three seconds and then releasing. Do three sets of ten a day. In order to make these exercises more effective, use weights, such as ben-wa balls or kegel pods that you insert inside the vagina and hold in place. (Don’t worry, they won’t get lost.)
3. Know yourself.
Explore, touch and even see what makes YOU feel good! You do not come with a road map, and your partner will appreciate a little guidance. A vibrator is essential to self-discovery. A bullet, such as the LELO Mia, is great for beginners. LELO Soraya, or what we call our “little black dress of vibrators,” is amazing for the woman who wants something classic and elegant. It has a smooth texture, multiple speeds, as well as vaginal and clitoral stimulators. Plus, it’s waterproof!
4. Keep it wet and clean.
Wetter sex is better sex. Not only do lubricants provide protection for delicate vaginal tissue, but some lubricants, like Slick Stik, contain Aloe Vera, which acts as a natural anti-bacterial. Also, be sure to keep your toys clean to protect your vaginal health. Our Clean and Simple Adult Toy Cleanser rinses completely clean—unlike soap, which can leave a residue—and keeps your toys in tip-top shape.
5. Have a different orgasm.
Yes, the G-spot really exists. And it’s in a body near you! Your G-Spot is located on the front wall of the vagina (same as the belly button) approximately one and a half to three inches inside. All you need is a little pressure to activate it. To do this, your partner can use a “come hither” motion with one or two fingers, or you can use a G-spot toy, like the LELO Gigi, which has a curved head to press against the G-spot. To further stimulate the area, try Romantatherapy G-Spot Crème, which increases blood flow to the G-spot.
6. Use a couples’ toy.
Most women cannot achieve orgasm during intercourse without direct clitoral stimulation. The We-Vibe 3 is hands-free, rechargeable, and fits inside your vagina with a two pads—one to stimulate the clitoris, and one to stimulate the G-spot used during intercourse. Use a little lubricant for him to slide into you, under the We-vibe, enjoying the vibration along the shaft of his penis. (Yes, the toy is small so both he and it will fit.)
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About the Author: Dana Northcraft is the Founder of Sweet Exuberance, a company dedicated to promoting sexual education and empowerment as a vehicle to creating stronger, more intimate relationships. She is also an Independent Passion Parties Consultant and aspiring Life Coach. Her study of and interest in promoting the mission of Sweet Exuberance spans two decades. Additionally, Dana is an attorney who lives in Manhattan with her husband and one very large cat. To host your own passion party, become a Consultant, or purchase any of the products listed above, please contact Dana at email@example.com or visit www.sweetexuberance.com.