Vixely loves hearing it straight from the horse’s mouth (so to speak) as to what guys really like—and don’t like—about girls. Even when we vehemently disagree with their opinions or find their responses on the obnoxious side (So you’re saying you’re basically looking for a mute fitness instructor? Move along, please.), we do appreciate their honesty.
To get some firsthand info, we turned to Adam*, a New York bachelor in his late 20s. Herewith, he reveals that his ideal night in involves a roaring fire, that he’s got a thing for “cat-like eyes,” and that doing the deed al fresco is always best. We couldn’t agree more. Read on…
Top 5 Things You Find Sexy in a Woman
Honestly, I don’t think I can be completely honest here. I’m kind of a freak in bed, so I’m going to hit you with a nice tame version.
1. Slender calves (those with cankles need not apply)
2. Cat-like eyes
3. Well read
5. A beautiful vagina
Top 5 Turn-Offs
1. Trashy attire
2. Huge boobs
3. Unable to make conversation
4. Lack of an adventurous spirit
5. Girls who play hard to get. I usually lose interest if they don’t show any.
What do you wish girls would do without having to be asked (sexually or otherwise)?
General willingness to experiment in the bedroom. Trying out new things like role playing, positions and places—so not exclusively in the bedroom, I guess. I’m crazy about morning sex. It’s the best time of the day, and changes your outlook for the rest of your waking hours. I love getting head first thing in the morning—sorry, I just do.
Your idea of the perfect date?
A day at the beach, drinks in the evening, a quiet dinner and usually a fire. Nothing is sexier than a blazing fire.
Ideal night in?
A fire, a bottle of fine wine and music. If the girl is right, then you don’t need anything more—the conversation will be entertaining enough.
Favorite sex positions?
I don’t discriminate, I love them all. But I must say there is nothing sexier then a woman on top rubbing her lady bits against my stomach. Also, anything outdoors. Sex is always better outdoors.
What does she do in bed that you love?
Honestly, I mainly care that she has an orgasm; nothing turns me on more.
Most fun hook-up you’ve had recently?
Sex in the bathroom of Lit, but we couldn’t finish because people were waiting to get inside and started banging on the door. When we finally gave up, we nonchalantly strolled out past a long line of angry faces.
*Name has been changed. But if anyone’s curious as to what a “beautiful vagina” entails, please let us know and we’ll inquire on your behalf…